How To Create Sexual Tension And Not Be The Friend

What is Sexual Tension, this is very crucial in not just knowing it but how to create it.

Here is a question that I got the other day.

Q :  How can I get a girl or someone to like me more than just a friend.  How do I stay out of the friend zone or at least have a chance by not being “a friend”?

A:
Now you cannot make anyone fall in love with you but what you can do is not get stuck in the friend zone by creating some sexual tension.  Creating sexual tension will get you out of the friend zone and maybe in the bedroom.  The most important thing is learning how to flirt with women.

If you take a minute to think about it I guarantee you will start to think about situations where you might have worked next to someone for a while and occasionally there might be some kind of attraction but you are just not sure what may be going on in the other persons mind, and all you can think about is what do women want?  Sometimes there can be some kind of a level frustration wanting to find out, and you might even feel that you are getting mixed signals and worried about taking things the wrong way.  But creating sexual tension is the gateway to the bedroom, it just needs  to be applied with care, so you don’t go over board and viewed as a jerk.

Most guys, sad to say are clueless on how to create sexual tension, and learning about what women find attractive.  Some have watched too much TV and think that telling women they’re hot right off the bat or buying them drinks will create some kind of sexual tension.  Dudes lets get something straight right now Sexy and very pretty and flirty women can careless about guys that play that song.  It blows me away when I am at a club or bar and these women have guys buying them drinks left and right.  I have been in offices where the prettiest girl sometimes has guys doing their work for them, and running down to Starbucks to buy them a cappuccino or something.  The pathetic thing is these guys think and are unsure if “she likes him?” So they just keep doing it.  What guys need to do is learn how to create some sort of sexual tension if they want to increase their odds on getting laid or getting their way and not played.  Sexual tension in its basic form is just creating some level of ATTRACTION but a little indirectly and sometimes with a little creativity with out being so blunt what your intentions are.  Then it’s about developing it to the point of creating frustration so there is a desire to scratch that itch.

Okay so how do you do it?  First and foremost not every woman is going to be wanting to get naked with you, period unless you’re Brad Pitt or a millionaire as far as they are concerned all men are jerks.  But your goal is to see which one’s are open to the idea of getting naked with you.  Now here is a step by step and do not just jump from one step to the other and there is a method to this madness and just remember if you are not getting positive feed back don’t push sometimes its just not meant to be no matter what you and who you so do keep that in mind.  I will go into detail on each step in my later posts but here is a real quick outline and steps to use .. which if you really look it scrambles their mentality they do not know whether you are coming or going .  Its using a little push and pull,, push them away just A BIT .. and them PULL THEM IN AGAIN …women love men that make them feel alive and excited.  But it takes practice and you have to develop your own style.

1)      Use cocky sarcastic humor

2)      Use double meanings in some of your phrases that could be taken the wrong way if she was thinking that way.

3)      Use sexual innuendo’s, but sparingly and only if the first time of use you gotta a smile out of it

4)      I don’t care attitudes whether she wants something or not

5)      Be really nice but unexpectedly

Last but not least step I will have to reveal in my others posts but only use this if all else is going well and you are just not able to close the deal for whatever reasson. ,,,, Remember,,, again this is only if all is going well other wise if you use this last technique you will be branded as a stalker.  If she is not responding to any of the above steps don’t use this last step on trying to close the deal otherwise you will more than likely end up with a restraining order.

So if you want to find out what the last step is that will definitely close the deal and get you out of the friend zone and if it was meant to be this will close the deal, and the only thing she will be thinking of is when,, and not if.

If you have any questions on hooking up and trying to find someone online or need some relationship advice that’s what I am here for sometimes you just need to hear the ugly truth from someone else just hit me up.   Hooking up and dating can be easy it does take work and sometimes you may not be thinking straight we have all been there.   Ladies you can ask away also you will get a guy’s perspective but just remember you may not always like the answer.  Although this blog is more focused on helping guys learn how to attract women as well learning how to flirt with women and finding out what do women find attractive.

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